Tag: Marriage
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Six Reasons Most Black Women Will Never Marry
Why Black Women Will Never Marry So many people have opinions on why black women aren’t getting married and usually it focuses on some version of black women need to stop being loud, prudish, god digging bitches who don’t understand what men want and expect their degrees to make them desirable mates. The reality is…
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Women Proposing to Men: An Act of Desperation or Empowerment? (Video)
Women Proposing to Men: Yea or Nay? Is it ever okay for a woman to propose to a man? I’m generally against women proposing to men. Most of the time when women do the proposing it’s an act of desperation. They’ve been with a man for umpteen-fifty-million years wanting desperately for him to propose and…
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Looking for a Husband? Date Marriage Minded Men
Date Marriage Minded Men In Tell him to “Put a Ring On It” I briefly mentioned the need to date marriage minded men if marriage is your goal. This should be a no-brainer when you’ve decided that you want more than a casual relationship, but for too many of us it’s not. Somehow we meet…
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Side Effects of Adultery: Slashed Tires, Hot Grits and Death
In the aftermath of the tragedy that was Steve McNair it seems many men folk have forgotten how serious adultery/cheating/playing with folks emotions really is. Men, more so then the ladies, put all the blame for what happened on Kazemi – the delusional chick who offed herself and McNair. They seem to believe that the…
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Is an Open Marriage Ever Okay?
Open To An Open Marriage? So not too long ago Monique’s husband was quoted as saying he didn’t mind if his wife got her sex on with another man: “We’re saying that if by some chance that you hear scandal and you hear that Mo’Nique slept with another man, it won’t be a need for…
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Sorry, but a College Educated Man is a Must When It Comes to Marriage
A College Educated Man Is A Must So today Belle, over at a Belle in Brookly had a post about settling when it comes to relationships and marriage: Would you settle? Have you? Is there a difference between settling and compromise? If so, what is it? – I think about it all the time. –…
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Smart Women Marry for Money
Smart Women Marry For Money Black women and marriage are consistently a hot topic online and off. However much of the topic tends to be on the low marriage rates among black women and not on the reasons and they type of men black women should marry. While there are many reasons women should marry,…
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Relationship Advice: Smart Women Marry for Money
Smart Women Marry For Money Black women and marriage are consistently a hot topic online and off. However much of the topic tends to be on the low marriage rates among black women and not on the reasons and they type of men black women should marry. While there are many reasons women should marry,…
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Why Marriage is a Bad Deal for Women
Marriage A Bad Deal For Women I fundamentally believe marriage is a bad deal for women. Ultimately when it comes to Holy Matrimony women get the short end of the stick and if the divorce rates are any indication (75% of divorces are initiated by women) then I’m not alone in thinking this. The main…
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Turns Out, You Should Tell Him to “Put a Ring On It”
Tell Him To Put A Ring On It Last week we learned about the six guidelines for women to get married according to John T. Molloy and the research he conducted for his book, Why Men Marry Some Men and Not Others. That post focused on guideline 5: Keep in shape, watch your weight, and…
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3 Reasons Why Marriage Isn’t the Answer
Marriage Doesn’t Automatically Fix Anything Contrary to popular belief, marriage is not a panacea. Conventional wisdom dictates that if women just married and stopped having all of those out of wedlock kids, the black community would be okay. Problems solved or at least on the way to being solved. The problem with this way of…
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So What’s the Real Reason You Aren’t Married?
One lady has taken a very proactive approach to getting married with her site: 52 Weeks to Find My Husband.