Category: Love Life
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3 Signs Your Man is Cheating
Top Signs Man Is Cheating So in Top 5 Signs You are Not His (Only) Woman seems like those who commented on the post wanted to know how to tell if your man was cheating: I dig what you’re saying but what about the supposed wifey/main chick who hears from him at regular hours, has…
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Top 5 Signs You’re Not His (Only) Woman
Five Signs He’s Cheating On You Many women I know or have known claim they have a man or that someone they’re seeing really cares about them , but when you hear the details of their “relationship” you realize that it’s no relationship at all but an extended booty call. She’s making time with a…
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How Soon is too Soon for Sex?
How Soon Is Too Soon For Sex In A Relationship This is a question that women constantly agonize over. In a world that’s still quick to label a woman who falls out of accepted sexual norms, many women are still wary of “getting their numbers up.” Well, my short answer to this question is whatever…
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Stop Playing Wife If Your Man’s Not Playing Husband
Stop Playing Wife When You’re Just A Girlfriend To all the desperate women out there: Stop it. You’re making it hard for the rest of us. I’m tired of encountering men who seem to believe all they have to do is look good, have a degree and smile to have my panties fall off. I’m…
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Sisters, Stop Waiting on God to Bring You a Man
God Is Not Going Bring You A Man Sisters, stop waiting on God to bring you a man. As a matter of fact, if I hear this particular meme out of the mouths of otherwise intelligent and accomplished women, one more time, I think I’m going to scream. The complete insanity of this statement and…
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If You Want to Find Love, Get A Life
It’s Time To Get A Life Get a Life. It never ceases to amaze me how many women sit and complain that they can never meet a man but when you question them further you realize that all they do every day is go home, go to work and go to church. Newsflash: You’re a…
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Looks Don’t Matter, But Really They Do
The Truth Is: Looks Matter A German study shows what we all know but what we rarely want to admit. Science is confirming what most women know: When given the choice for a mate, men go for good looks. – And guys won’t be surprised to learn that women are much choosier about partners than…
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Don’t Interrogate Your Date. It’s a Date Not an Inquisition.
Don’t Interrogate Your Date Exhibit A: Lindsay’s Date With Oliver on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Okay. I can be guilty of this one from time to time but I’ve learned to get the information I need without the guy feeling like he’s at the inquisition. Lindsay BADGERED this guy. LOL. She was in…
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The Black Man Shortage and What to Do About it
The Missing Black Men So there’s a shortage of marriageable Black men. Of Black educated, professional men to be exact. This isn’t news. It’s so not news that I’m not going to even bother going into details about the how and the why things are the way they are. As a matter of fact I’m…
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Volume Dating and Stacking Your Dates
Learn The Art Of Volume Dating Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 days is an excellent example of volume dating. Volume dating just means dating a lot people often and regularly. Remember, I said you wouldn’t have to kiss a lot of frogs but you would have to date them. Volume dating allows you to meet…
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Knowing When to Move On Part Two
Knowing When To Move On Is Hard I received a note from one of the Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days women, Michelle. Talk about surprised. Who knew people actually read this blog. LOL. As the fourth 30 Dates woman on the scene, I’m going to have to politely disagree with your assessment JJ. I…
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Knowing When to Move On
Knowing When To Move On Is Hard Okay, so in a previous post I talked about the fallacy of chemistry and why it shouldn’t be used as the sole criteria when deciding on a second date. Now I’m going to address a really important issue that I think women in general and Black women in…