Category: Love Life
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So What’s the Real Reason You Aren’t Married?
One lady has taken a very proactive approach to getting married with her site: 52 Weeks to Find My Husband.
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Interracial Relationships: Anyone But a White Man For Me
Interracial Relationships: No White Men I’m a fan of interracial dating. I strongly believe that, for Black women, interracial dating is a must. This insistence of “Only a Black for me,” is baffling to me. I don’t get it. I recognize that often we are socialized to date Black men and only Black men. The…
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Looking for Love? Let love Find You!
Stop Looking for Love So often we have in our head the type of man we want. By the time we’ve graduated form college and head into the real world we’ve perfected our list of must-haves: tall, dark handsome, educated, ambitious, successful or headed in that direction….etc. But what happens when the love we were…
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Can You Make Someone Cheat? Yes, You Can
Can You Make Someone Cheat? This is going to piss a lot of people off but, contrary to popular belief, you can make someone cheat. Yes. You read that right. From a woman’s perspective there are three things that I think women do that can lead their man to stray: 1. The Bait and Switch…
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Why the Other Woman Isn’t the Problem
The Other Woman Isn’t The Problem I know this is hard for many women to believe, but it’s true. Too often I’ve seen women go after the Other Woman while never, ever going after their men. Or, if they go after their man, it’s never quite with the same ferocity as they do the Other…
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A Ring? Try Put a Title On It
Stop With The Pseudo Relationshp So I wrote Tell him to “Put a Ring On It,” and some of the comments I received from men were beyond mind-blowing. Some of my favorites: Thats’s bad advice. Never put the pressure on a man early in the relationship by bringing up marriage or titles. When he’s ready…
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Tell Him to “Put A Ring On It”
If He Wants It He Will Put A Ring On It Up in the club (club), we just broke up (up) I’m doing my own little thing You decided to dip (dip), but now you want to trip (trip) Cause another brother noticed me I’m up on him (him), he up on me (me) Don’t…
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Why Women Choose to be The Other Woman
Is Being The Other Woman Worth It? So in the last post, “Why the Jumpoff has It Better Than Wifey,” the comment section exploding with folk giving the definition of a jumpoff vs. a mistress vs. a ho. And all I could think to myself was: Whatever you want to call it…you’re still The Other…
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4 Ways the Jumpoff Has It Better Than Wifey
Better The Jumpoff Than The Wife In the infamous Myspace Battle between Tiny and some random chick Tiny (allegedly) said the following: “The only thing you can do is s*ck his d*ck no matter what I HAVE HIS HEART!!” I have his heart? What does that mean exactly? And let’s be real, Tiny isn’t the…
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Note to Men: Stop Chasing Women You Can’t Afford
Date Your Wallet Not Your Fantasy I have a pet peeve. Men who believe that they should have a “dime” yet only amount to a nickel themselves and then these same men sit around and call all women gold diggers and complain how women won’t “give a good brother a try.” See, the problem with…
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There’s the Man You Date and There’s the Man You Marry
The Man You Marry, Know The Difference So often we here from men (and other women) that there are women you date and there are women you marry or, to put more crassly, you can’t turn a ho into a housewife. Well, the same applies to men. There is the man you date and there…
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Wearing a Man Down is NOT a Marriage Strategy
Do You Have A Viable Marriage Strategy? On Knowing When to Move On, a commenter posted the following: And not for nothing, a lot of women can wear a man down or be the last option standing after a 10yr wait! It happens all the time… By then he has pressure from everyone to “do…