Author: sexwithts
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The Mistress Speaks: I’m Young and He’s Rich
I’m young. Just turned 22 last month. I’ve had two major relationships, both with men who took care of me (one was a ball player, one was in the music industry). I simply can’t see myself being with someone who can’t satisfy me in EVERY way possible.
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The Mistress Speaks: When Being a Jumpoff Isn’t Enough
I Hate being a jumpoff. I did it once for a year for a man that i loved so much. We were together in high school and a couple years in college. We broke up b/c of distance issues. However, we reconnected about 3 years later, and the sparks were still there. But in those…
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The Mistress Speaks: He Wanted His Cake and to Eat it too
So I read ur blog…really love it….wanted 2 tell my side. I was talking to a him for 4 yrs…I didn’t want anything from him other than time, a good screw and some bill money every once in a while. We started as friends back in college…after we graduated I moved to NY he stayed…
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The Mistress Speaks: When the Main Woman Becomes the Other Woman
I meet him through the personal ads. We dated over a year and a half before we got married. Our wedding was a simple civil deal with my Mother and sister present. I thought we were happy until 2004. My world officially came to an end. He was sneaking around with a chick he found…
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The Mistress Speaks: No Time for Single Men
I have had several affairs with married men. Why? Because I wanted physical and intellectual interaction with no commitment, no expectations, and no responsibilities.
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The Mistress Speaks: Always the Adulteress Never the Wife
So, remember a few months back when I made a request for women to tell their stories of being mistresses, jump offs and other women? Well, after a computer meltdown and a site redesign I can finally get the series up and going. The following is a story that was sent to me, unchanged, except…
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STD Rates Increasing Among Black Women and Teens
U.S. syphilis rates rose for a seventh year in 2007, driven by gay and bisexual men, while chlamydia reached record numbers and gonorrhea remained at alarming levels — especially among blacks, health officials said on Tuesday.
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Falling in Love is the Easy Part
You choose to commit. You choose to make it work. Growing up is not a bad thing or a good thing…it just is. Time goes by pretty fast. If you’re 28 today, tomorrow you will be 40. The only question is do you want to live your life with someone else or do you want…
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My Sexual Fantasy: Dominate Me
What’s Your Sexual Fantasy I don’t have a whole lot going in the way of sexual fantasies. Sex in the rain. Public sex. Watching other folk get it on But what I really like and am often afraid (ashamed) to admit is that I like to be dominated. Not full on S&M to the point…
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Saying Only a Black Man for Me, Means You’ll be Alone and Lonely
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So What’s the Real Reason You Aren’t Married?
One lady has taken a very proactive approach to getting married with her site: 52 Weeks to Find My Husband.
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Why Down Low Men Aren’t the Problem
Down Low men aren’t the problem. I’m really tired of black women believing that the biggest risk to their sexual health is the idea that they may be sleeping with a man who is sleeping with other men. The biggest risk to black woman’s sexual health is the lack of condom use and unfaithful men…