Author: sexwithts

  • Wearing a Man Down is NOT a Marriage Strategy

    Wearing a Man Down is NOT a Marriage Strategy

    Do You Have A Viable Marriage Strategy? On Knowing When to Move On, a commenter posted the following: And not for nothing, a lot of women can wear a man down or be the last option standing after a 10yr wait! It happens all the time… By then he has pressure from everyone to “do…

  • 3 Signs Your Man is Cheating

    3 Signs Your Man is Cheating

    Top Signs Man Is Cheating So in Top 5 Signs You are Not His (Only) Woman seems like those who commented on the post wanted to know how to tell if your man was cheating: I dig what you’re saying but what about the supposed wifey/main chick who hears from him at regular hours, has…

  • Top 5 Signs You’re Not His (Only) Woman

    Top 5 Signs You’re Not His (Only) Woman

    Five Signs He’s Cheating On You Many women I know or have known claim they have a man or that someone they’re seeing really cares about them , but when you hear the details of their “relationship” you realize that it’s no relationship at all but an extended booty call. She’s making time with a…

  • How Soon is too Soon for Sex?

    How Soon is too Soon for Sex?

    How Soon Is Too Soon For Sex In A Relationship This is a question that women constantly agonize over. In a world that’s still quick to label a woman who falls out of accepted sexual norms, many women are still wary of “getting their numbers up.” Well, my short answer to this question is whatever…

  • Note to the Ladies: Keep Your Panties On

    Note to the Ladies: Keep Your Panties On

    Nothing Wrong With Waiting To Have Sex Now anyone who has been reading this blog long enough knows that I don’t have any problems with casual sex. Personally, I feel if you’re a grown-up and you want to do grown-up things…go for it. As long as folk are on the same page and you’re being…

  • Stop Playing Wife If Your Man’s Not Playing Husband

    Stop Playing Wife If Your Man’s Not Playing Husband

    Stop Playing Wife When You’re Just A Girlfriend To all the desperate women out there: Stop it. You’re making it hard for the rest of us. I’m tired of encountering men who seem to believe all they have to do is look good, have a degree and smile to have my panties fall off. I’m…

  • Your Orgasm is Your Responsibility

    Your Orgasm is Your Responsibility

    A fact older women realize and younger women are learning, is that your orgasm is your responsibility. So often I hear women complaining about how bad…

  • Sisters, Stop Waiting on God to Bring You a Man

    Sisters, Stop Waiting on God to Bring You a Man

    God Is Not Going Bring You A Man Sisters, stop waiting on God to bring you a man. As a matter of fact, if I hear this particular meme out of the mouths of otherwise intelligent and accomplished women, one more time, I think I’m going to scream. The complete insanity of this statement and…

  • What’s It With Men and Anal Sex?

    What’s It With Men and Anal Sex?

    What’s It With Men And Anal Sex? No, really? Why is it men feel the need to stick their penis in every available orifice? Right now I’m just waiting for some guy to say to me, “Hey baby, let me stick it in your ear.” SMH. My current “friend” has been on this anal sex…

  • If You Want to Find Love, Get A Life

    If You Want to Find Love, Get A Life

    It’s Time To Get A Life Get a Life. It never ceases to amaze me how many women sit and complain that they can never meet a man but when you question them further you realize that all they do every day is go home, go to work and go to church. Newsflash: You’re a…

  • Looks Don’t Matter, But Really They Do

    The Truth Is: Looks Matter A German study shows what we all know but what we rarely want to admit. Science is confirming what most women know: When given the choice for a mate, men go for good looks. – And guys won’t be surprised to learn that women are much choosier about partners than…

  • Don’t Interrogate Your Date. It’s a Date Not an Inquisition.

    Don’t Interrogate Your Date. It’s a Date Not an Inquisition.

    Don’t Interrogate Your Date Exhibit A: Lindsay’s Date With Oliver on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Okay. I can be guilty of this one from time to time but I’ve learned to get the information I need without the guy feeling like he’s at the inquisition. Lindsay BADGERED this guy. LOL. She was in…