Category: Love Life

  • Why You Can’t Compete With a Woman Like Joseline Hernandez

    Joseline Hernandez Can’t Be Messed With You can’t compete with a woman like Joseline Hernandez, Love & Hip Hop Atlanta’s breakout star and “Steebie” J’s newest artist. You can’t compete with her and you shouldn’t even try. Women like Joseline Hernandez don’t live by the same rules and accepted mores that govern the rest of…

  • Love & Hip Hop Atlanta: When You Love a Man Who’s Not Good for You

    Love & Hip Hop Atlanta: When You Love a Man Who’s Not Good for You

    Love & Hip Hop Atlanta: Loving the Wrong Man If we’ve learned anything from this season of Love & Hip Hop Atlanta is that hope springs eternal and the heart wants what the heart want even when what it wants is a low-down, no-good, lying, skeezy, slimy, whoring Son of a Bitch. It’s easy to…

  • Psychology Today Says Black Women Aren’t as Attractive as Other Races of Women

    Psychology Today Says Black Women Aren’t as Attractive as Other Races of Women

    Psychology Today Says Black Women Aren’t Attractive So since the uproar by What About Our Daughters readers, the article has since been pulled – but if you’d like to know what this offensive piece of mess by Psychology Today that was masquerading as “science” said keep reading: Why Are Black Women Less Physically Attractive Than…

  • Six Reasons Most Black Women Will Never Marry

    Six Reasons Most Black Women Will Never Marry

    Why Black Women Will Never Marry So many people have opinions on why black women aren’t getting married and usually it focuses on some version of black women need to stop being loud, prudish, god digging bitches who don’t understand what men want and expect their degrees to make them desirable mates. The reality is…

  • Women Proposing to Men: An Act of Desperation or Empowerment? (Video)

    Women Proposing to Men: An Act of Desperation or Empowerment? (Video)

    Women Proposing to Men: Yea or Nay? Is it ever okay for a woman to propose to a man? I’m generally against women proposing to men. Most of the time when women do the proposing it’s an act of desperation. They’ve been with a man for umpteen-fifty-million years wanting desperately for him to propose and…

  • Should Women Expect Men to Cheat?

    Should Women Expect Men to Cheat?

    Are Men Hardwired to Cheat So last week Tyrese was on the Wendy Williams Show and the topic relationships, men, and cheating came up. And Tyrese had plenty to say on the subject. According to him “It’s expected of men to cheat:” “I don’t have all the answers, but I can say that most mothers…

  • When Does Infidelity Stop Being a Forgivable Indiscretion?

    When Does Infidelity Stop Being a Forgivable Indiscretion?

    Is Infidelity Ever Truly Forgivable? Now I know for some of you this question seems silly. For you, all Infidelity is never a “forgivable indiscretion.” It is always a time for handing out walking papers. However, for many couples, cheating isn’t the end all be all of their relationship. Many people try to stay and…

  • Do You Want a Wedding? Or Do You Want a Marriage?

    Do You Want a Wedding? Or Do You Want a Marriage?

    Is It The Marriage Or Wedding You Want? There’s a lot of hemming and hawing in the black blogsphere as well as in the mainstream media on how impossible it is for a black woman to get married (I’d argue it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy, but that’s another post for another day). But one question I…

  • 5 Questions Women Should Ask Men When Dating

    Dating Questions Women Should Ask Men So Mr Serial Divorcee Relationship Expert Steve Harvey has five questions all women should ask men when they are dating. While I don’t agree with most of Stevy Harvey’s brand of relationship advice I do believe that his “5 questions,” are pretty on point. I’d expand the list a…

  • Real Talk on Interracial Dating From Someone Who Doesn’t Hate Black Men

    Real Talk on Interracial Dating From Someone Who Doesn’t Hate Black Men

    Interracial Dating Tips & Advice There’s a lot of hate in the blogsphere directed toward black men and a lot of bullshit, uninformed dialogue when it comes to interracial dating, often coming from the same sources. Too many of the IR dating sites hold white men up as the example of all that’s right with…

  • Looking for a Husband? Date Marriage Minded Men

    Looking for a Husband? Date Marriage Minded Men

    Date Marriage Minded Men In Tell him to “Put a Ring  On It” I briefly mentioned the need to date marriage minded men if marriage is your goal. This should be a no-brainer when you’ve decided that you want more than a casual relationship, but for too many of us it’s not. Somehow we meet…

  • Side Effects of Adultery: Slashed Tires, Hot Grits and Death

    Side Effects of Adultery: Slashed Tires, Hot Grits and Death

    In the aftermath of the tragedy that was Steve McNair it seems many men folk have forgotten how serious adultery/cheating/playing with folks emotions really is. Men, more so then the ladies, put all the blame for what happened on Kazemi – the delusional chick who offed herself and McNair. They seem to believe that the…