Tag: Relationship Advice
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Why You Can’t Compete With a Woman Like Joseline Hernandez
Joseline Hernandez Can’t Be Messed With You can’t compete with a woman like Joseline Hernandez, Love & Hip Hop Atlanta’s breakout star and “Steebie” J’s newest artist. You can’t compete with her and you shouldn’t even try. Women like Joseline Hernandez don’t live by the same rules and accepted mores that govern the rest of…
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Love & Hip Hop Atlanta: When You Love a Man Who’s Not Good for You
Love & Hip Hop Atlanta: Loving the Wrong Man If we’ve learned anything from this season of Love & Hip Hop Atlanta is that hope springs eternal and the heart wants what the heart want even when what it wants is a low-down, no-good, lying, skeezy, slimy, whoring Son of a Bitch. It’s easy to…
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Do You Want a Wedding? Or Do You Want a Marriage?
Is It The Marriage Or Wedding You Want? There’s a lot of hemming and hawing in the black blogsphere as well as in the mainstream media on how impossible it is for a black woman to get married (I’d argue it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy, but that’s another post for another day). But one question I…
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Smart Women Marry for Money
Smart Women Marry For Money Black women and marriage are consistently a hot topic online and off. However much of the topic tends to be on the low marriage rates among black women and not on the reasons and they type of men black women should marry. While there are many reasons women should marry,…
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Relationship Advice: Smart Women Marry for Money
Smart Women Marry For Money Black women and marriage are consistently a hot topic online and off. However much of the topic tends to be on the low marriage rates among black women and not on the reasons and they type of men black women should marry. While there are many reasons women should marry,…
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Why Marriage is a Bad Deal for Women
Marriage A Bad Deal For Women I fundamentally believe marriage is a bad deal for women. Ultimately when it comes to Holy Matrimony women get the short end of the stick and if the divorce rates are any indication (75% of divorces are initiated by women) then I’m not alone in thinking this. The main…
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Sex: The Ultimate Relationship Deal Breaker
Sex in a relationship is a lot like the US at the UN – even if the rest of the relationship is great, if the sex is bad then there is no deal. I’ve heard many women argue that you can have a great relationship even if you’re not setting the bedroom on fire. I…
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Falling in Love is the Easy Part
You choose to commit. You choose to make it work. Growing up is not a bad thing or a good thing…it just is. Time goes by pretty fast. If you’re 28 today, tomorrow you will be 40. The only question is do you want to live your life with someone else or do you want…
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A Ring? Try Put a Title On It
Stop With The Pseudo Relationshp So I wrote Tell him to “Put a Ring On It,” and some of the comments I received from men were beyond mind-blowing. Some of my favorites: Thats’s bad advice. Never put the pressure on a man early in the relationship by bringing up marriage or titles. When he’s ready…
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Tell Him to “Put A Ring On It”
If He Wants It He Will Put A Ring On It Up in the club (club), we just broke up (up) I’m doing my own little thing You decided to dip (dip), but now you want to trip (trip) Cause another brother noticed me I’m up on him (him), he up on me (me) Don’t…
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There’s the Man You Date and There’s the Man You Marry
The Man You Marry, Know The Difference So often we here from men (and other women) that there are women you date and there are women you marry or, to put more crassly, you can’t turn a ho into a housewife. Well, the same applies to men. There is the man you date and there…
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Wearing a Man Down is NOT a Marriage Strategy
Do You Have A Viable Marriage Strategy? On Knowing When to Move On, a commenter posted the following: And not for nothing, a lot of women can wear a man down or be the last option standing after a 10yr wait! It happens all the time… By then he has pressure from everyone to “do…