Author: sexwithts
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The Good Girl’s Guide to Kinky Sex – An Introduction
An Introduction To Kinky Sex I think many black women are sexually repressed. And in all fairness there’s no way we wouldn’t be since many of us grew up in conservative religious households where the overriding message on sex is, “Don’t do it until you’re married,” where “it” isn’t fully explained or explored in any…
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When Does Infidelity Stop Being a Forgivable Indiscretion?
Is Infidelity Ever Truly Forgivable? Now I know for some of you this question seems silly. For you, all Infidelity is never a “forgivable indiscretion.” It is always a time for handing out walking papers. However, for many couples, cheating isn’t the end all be all of their relationship. Many people try to stay and…
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High Class Prostitutes Make a Butt-Load of Money Because They Work So Few Hours
Prostitutes Make Bank For Few Hours Work Apparently high class prostitutes make a butt load money because they work so few hours. And here I thought it was because they charged ridiculous sums of money for a blow job: Seven Levitt and Stephen Dubner have written a new book, Superfreakonomics, in which they explain the…
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Do You Want a Wedding? Or Do You Want a Marriage?
Is It The Marriage Or Wedding You Want? There’s a lot of hemming and hawing in the black blogsphere as well as in the mainstream media on how impossible it is for a black woman to get married (I’d argue it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy, but that’s another post for another day). But one question I…
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The Real Reasons Women Have Sex: It Ain’t for Love
The Real Reasons Women Have Sex Seems like women have sex for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with love, pleasure or having babies. According to new research the real reasons women have sex are varied, and, some would say, surprising: “Research has shown most men find most women at least somewhat…
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5 Questions Women Should Ask Men When Dating
Dating Questions Women Should Ask Men So Mr Serial Divorcee Relationship Expert Steve Harvey has five questions all women should ask men when they are dating. While I don’t agree with most of Stevy Harvey’s brand of relationship advice I do believe that his “5 questions,” are pretty on point. I’d expand the list a…
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Study Shows Withdrawl Works as Well as Condoms when it Comes to Preventing Pregnancy
Don’t throw your condoms out yet. There are still STD’s to worry about, but withdrawal seems to be just as effective as condoms when it comes to preventing pregnancy: Researchers at the Guttmacher Institute studied the results of several recent national surveys and found that if a couple uses withdrawal perfectly (pulling out before the…
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Real Talk on Interracial Dating From Someone Who Doesn’t Hate Black Men
Interracial Dating Tips & Advice There’s a lot of hate in the blogsphere directed toward black men and a lot of bullshit, uninformed dialogue when it comes to interracial dating, often coming from the same sources. Too many of the IR dating sites hold white men up as the example of all that’s right with…
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Sex With Weaves: Just Keep Your Hands on the Titties?
Kinky Inquiring minds want to know.
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Looking for a Husband? Date Marriage Minded Men
Date Marriage Minded Men In Tell him to “Put a Ring On It” I briefly mentioned the need to date marriage minded men if marriage is your goal. This should be a no-brainer when you’ve decided that you want more than a casual relationship, but for too many of us it’s not. Somehow we meet…
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Side Effects of Adultery: Slashed Tires, Hot Grits and Death
In the aftermath of the tragedy that was Steve McNair it seems many men folk have forgotten how serious adultery/cheating/playing with folks emotions really is. Men, more so then the ladies, put all the blame for what happened on Kazemi – the delusional chick who offed herself and McNair. They seem to believe that the…
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Can We Stop With the Blue Collar Men Worship
Blue Collar Men Aren’t Saviors Can we stop with the blue collar man worship please? Just because a man works with his hands does not mean he’s more enlightened, steadfast, kinder, gentler, will make a better husband, father or that somehow he automatically qualifies as being a “good” man than those who have white collar…