Author: sexwithts
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Don’t Put Your Pussy on a Platter
Don’t Lead With Your Pussy Yeah, you read that right. Don’t put your pussy on a platter. What do I mean by that? Exhibit A: Nicole’s date with Kalik on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Could she seem anymore desperate? Could she have made it any clearer that she wanted to sex him then…
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The Black Man Shortage and What to Do About it
The Missing Black Men So there’s a shortage of marriageable Black men. Of Black educated, professional men to be exact. This isn’t news. It’s so not news that I’m not going to even bother going into details about the how and the why things are the way they are. As a matter of fact I’m…
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Volume Dating and Stacking Your Dates
Learn The Art Of Volume Dating Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 days is an excellent example of volume dating. Volume dating just means dating a lot people often and regularly. Remember, I said you wouldn’t have to kiss a lot of frogs but you would have to date them. Volume dating allows you to meet…
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Knowing When to Move On Part Two
Knowing When To Move On Is Hard I received a note from one of the Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days women, Michelle. Talk about surprised. Who knew people actually read this blog. LOL. As the fourth 30 Dates woman on the scene, I’m going to have to politely disagree with your assessment JJ. I…
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Knowing When to Move On
Knowing When To Move On Is Hard Okay, so in a previous post I talked about the fallacy of chemistry and why it shouldn’t be used as the sole criteria when deciding on a second date. Now I’m going to address a really important issue that I think women in general and Black women in…
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The Fallacy of Chemistry
Don’t Rely Solely On Chemistry So I’ve been watching Essence 30 Dates in 30 Days. I won’t comment on Essence continuing to feed into the, “Black women are so desperate and they can’t think of anyting else but how to get a man,” message that seems to be everywhere these days. But I will say…
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4 Reasons You’re Having a Hard Time Getting a Date
Getting A Date Isn’t Rocket Science I’m really beginning to think that many Black woman are clueless on how to get a date. And I don’t really understand why that is because getting a date is not that difficult. I could I have a date tonight if I wanted one. If you are a woman…