Category: Sex Life
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Why Down Low Men Aren’t the Problem
Down Low men aren’t the problem. I’m really tired of black women believing that the biggest risk to their sexual health is the idea that they may be sleeping with a man who is sleeping with other men. The biggest risk to black woman’s sexual health is the lack of condom use and unfaithful men…
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6 Reasons Why It’s Difficult for Women to Have an Orgasm?
Why Is It Difficult for Women to Have an Orgasm? According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)! A lot of flack fall on men on…
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Are Women Hardwired to Cheat?
Is Cheating Natural for Women? So often when the discussion is had about who is hardwired to cheat, the consensus is always men are cheaters by nature and women are more monogamous by nature. That we just aren’t wired to cheat in the way men are. These conversations always ’cause me to shake my head…
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Note to the Ladies: Keep Your Panties On
Nothing Wrong With Waiting To Have Sex Now anyone who has been reading this blog long enough knows that I don’t have any problems with casual sex. Personally, I feel if you’re a grown-up and you want to do grown-up things…go for it. As long as folk are on the same page and you’re being…
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Your Orgasm is Your Responsibility
A fact older women realize and younger women are learning, is that your orgasm is your responsibility. So often I hear women complaining about how bad…
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What’s It With Men and Anal Sex?
What’s It With Men And Anal Sex? No, really? Why is it men feel the need to stick their penis in every available orifice? Right now I’m just waiting for some guy to say to me, “Hey baby, let me stick it in your ear.” SMH. My current “friend” has been on this anal sex…
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Don’t Put Your Pussy on a Platter
Don’t Lead With Your Pussy Yeah, you read that right. Don’t put your pussy on a platter. What do I mean by that? Exhibit A: Nicole’s date with Kalik on Essence’s 30 Dates in 30 Days Could she seem anymore desperate? Could she have made it any clearer that she wanted to sex him then…